
These Backyard Garden Basics are brought to you after many failed garden attempts & perseverance! Homemaking and home education can definitely include gardening, so I have spent the last many years dreaming of growing a beautiful garden to provide my family with both the learning experience and the food.
(This article was originally written in 2018)
The funny – not so funny – thing is that I grew up on a farm! However, I actually was not very involved with planning, prepping, planting, and tending our garden, but I was involved in the harvesting and preserving.
With visions of the bountiful garden from my childhood in my head, I longed to grow my own garden so badly. But, our two previous attempts had ended in failure.
We tried a raised garden bed and a large garden in the ground, but they were not successful. Both times, we barely yielded a handful from a couple of the plants.
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So, what was the problem?
- bad soil (both gardens were on recently logged land and our raised garden was filled with yucky leftover dirt from a construction job site).
- really, nothing could be worse than starting with worthless soil, but my lack of attention contributed to the lack of success.
Turns out, being pregnant (and sick) and giving birth (and caring for a newborn) EVERY year for nine years takes up a lot of time & energy! Throw in a few serious medical conditions and special needs children, and you get a neglected garden!
After getting married, we lived on 5 & 20-acre farms in the first several years of our marriage. Now we have been in the city for over seven years.
I have spent the last few years waiting for my ship to come in (AKA: getting back on a farm) so that I could finally try my hand (or should I say thumb?) at gardening again. Surely I would be successful at some point, right?!
Fast-forward to this year: our youngest child is four and our medical conditions have stabilized (praise the Lord!). And here we are: renting a small house on a small city lot.
So, we decided to embrace our urban life and build an urban garden from scratch. After asking my dad (a seasoned gardener/farmer) and others within my online community for advice, assigning the job of research to my oldest child, browsing Pinterest, and visiting our local farm store – we did it!
We are still learning, but we have been so blessed with our garden this year! I am excited to try my hand at a fall garden, too.
Urban Backyard Garden Basics For Homemakers
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Sketch A Plan & Calculate How Much Space You Have
- Since we are talking about urban backyard gardens, we are dealing with limited space.
- We are renting so we wanted to take up a minimal amount of ground. For this reason, we chose to build garden boxes on legs.
- Other options include pots, hanging pots/boxes, raised beds, and vertical growing.
- It is a good idea to sketch a rough layout/plan of your garden before building and planting.
Choose What You Will Plant
- You’ll want to choose the vegetables you love that are also known to grow well in your area.
- Zucchini & radishes are said to be the easiest to grow.
- Decide if you want to stick with organic (I recommend you do).
- Choose the quantities of each plant based on its expected yield.
Research Your Zone
- Speaking of your area, be sure to check out the plant hardiness zone map to learn about your area. You can see it HERE.
- Talk to seasoned gardeners from your area and ask their advice.
- Visit your local farm store or garden nursery.
Write A To-Do & Shopping List
- What do you need to do?
- What do you need to buy?
Build or Prepare Your Garden
- Get your materials and supplies. Build and prepare your beds, boxes, etc.
- Start with good soil! Bring in a good garden mix from your local nursery/rockery if needed to make sure your garden has a healthy soil. We used a composted garden blend.
- Add in and use an organic fertilizer. We bought a bag from our local farm store.
- Do not put fresh manure on your garden, because it will burn them.
Plant Your Garden
- Combine advice from seasoned gardeners with advice from the farm store employee with information from a garden book and the information that came on the little vegetable labels to determine exactly how you will plant each variety.
- Follow the instructions carefully. This was something I did not do with my previous (failed) gardening attempts.
- Do or Don’t add fertilizer or other nutrient boosters to the soil based on each plant’s needs.
- Say a little prayer for God’s blessing as you sow each seed or place each start.
- Water daily, morning & evening for the newly planted seeds. Less frequently once they sprout and start to grow. Decrease watering down to once daily, then every other day, and finally to just one deep soak weekly. This is what we have done and our garden is growing beautifully!
- For tomatoes, pinch off the little suckers so that they don’t suck the nutrients from the plant.
- Mulch, if needed. We piled up extra soil/bark chips around our potato plants this year while they were little.
- Weed, if needed. We have had very little weeds in our high-rise garden boxes!
Track Your Progress
- Record the date you planted each variety.
- Take note of the days until maturity.
- Jot down your ideas for using the produce fresh.
- Jot down ways you plan to preserve your harvest (freeze, can, or dry).
- Track the yield.
Harvest & Preserve
- Research & learn the best ways to prepare & preserve your harvest!
- As you harvest your produce, use what you can fresh.
- Preserve via canning, freezing, and/or drying.
- Praise the Lord for His blessings!
Gardening takes commitment, perseverance, and patience. I am proof that if you don’t give up, you will eventually succeed!
Also, it’s okay if your life simply is not ready for a garden … we all go through seasons and need to work with the opportunities, resources, time, and energy we have. And, these garden basics for homemakers will help.
“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; … He hath made every thing beautiful in his time” Ecclesiastes 3:1, 2, 11.
UPDATE: You can read about our journey to BorderLine Farm in 2019 and how we are transforming our 1-acre into a garden, food forest, and mini farm >> HERE.
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Those are all great tips for starting a garden! I can relate to how difficult it can be to garden when you are pregnant or nursing or have newborn, or have kids… for years on end 🙂 We’ve been there! I always managed to keep going, but it sure would have been easier if I hadn’t been pregnant or nursing, or worried about working around nap schedules!
I love that tall raised bed! They are so easy to weed and tend to without bending over.
Gardening takes a lot of patience and persistence, that’s for sure!
So glad that life is slowing down for you, and that you were able to enjoy gardening again!
I’m an urban gardener too! I also had gardens around me all my life. You offered some amazing tips.